My parents do not yet support me, I always get scoldings. What do I do ? How do I correct this ?
If all this is happening to you then its not the time to worry instead its time to celebrate because this shows that you are on the track to success. If this would not have been happening I would have my own questions and doubts if you actually were on the journey to success. If this would not be the case that would be an indicator to put in some more efforts.
If your parents are scolding you, they do it for your own good, they do it because they are just a little worried that whether their son / daughter would be able to manage the extra load or not, and every parent loves to see their kid enjoying a princely life till a certain age, until he starts working. They scold you because they love you a lot and they want to see you in front of their eyes more often than less because they fear anyways after certain age you would not be available to them so much. In case of guys a work life starts and in case of girls they leave for their new destinations. Hence they want to spend more time with you now and see you enjoying a life of luxuries till that age arrives. But when they see you investing so much hard work and showing less availability to them much before that age, I guess its clear that it is natural that they would scold you. But they are not aware that you have learnt that “work like a coolie and live like a prince” and after all you are doing it for them.
Remember never tell in front of parents that you would be earning big and you are doing for them and now you will be able to fulfil all the dreams that were so far unfulfilled, this would hurt them making them somewhere feel that they could not fulfil all your dreams so you are in hunt for a platform that could do that. NO, its not an ebizzers’ attitude to hurt anyone, he knows how to be an under dog. Don’t tell them this explicitly but speak through action. Slowly when they see, you have already picked up ebiz as career and you are completely standing on your own legs they will support and be proud of you to an extent you cant imagine. I experience that today. Before I check the website my dad is there to open it and tell me about every update, who is on 1 lakh per week and who is not.
Remember this took time, it did not happen overnight.
You have to be patient and learn to be extremely respectable. All the more atleast after joining ebiz so as not to hurt them
in anyway making them feel we have grown much before time. We should still remain the same old kids to them however big we might
grow as leaders in ebiz. Even at this position I cannot escape those sweet scoldings of my mom everyday,
because I wil always remain a kid for them. Its always the way you take it. If you react back when they scold you,
you will make it more fervour, instead, sit back quiet and tell in your mind, that this should make my why even stronger
to achieve my goals and prove it to my parents. And get to back to work next again being prepared for another set of
scoldings that evening.
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