I am losing friends. My friends are avoiding me. How do I maintain relations?

This question is something that hits every ebizzers’ mind. I have been through the very same phase. But after 38 months of experience today. I posses a clear understanding, things today are crystal clear in front of me. What I have learnt in my mammoth 38 months experience is that, ebiz came as a filter in my life which showed me who my true friends actually were.

Most of us live under this false myth, that he is my best friend / she is my best friend or they are my close friends, but the most wonderful saying which we learnt in kindergartens “A friend in need is a friend indeed.” Never applies to most of these people.

Not meaning that if somebody does not join you he is not your friend. My best friend has not joined me either. My conclusion that she was my best friend was right and still held good on the grounds that she always supported me in pursuing ebiz though not being a part of it herself. But those others, whom I before thought, were good friends, no doubt rejected me, but along came the mockings, teasings and discouraging and that made me understand who actually were my friends.

Today with 38 months of experience in human relations I do call myself an expert in analyzing and studying human relations and psychologies (though there is a long way to go). One important thing that I learnt from my experience is that “friends are never permanent, what remains permanent are our passions/interests”. But ebiz has come as a platform which is going to last till eternity and has given a new dimension to my thought and today I say “friends at ebiz are genuine and tied till eternity”. Ebiz has brought all the like minded people under one roof. These are friends who will share your sorrows and multiply your joys endlessly.

As far as the question stands now, I suggest the people whom you say your friends, sit down and analyse–are they actually. If yes, then you would’nt be losing them because good friends understand each other, the vary fact that you feel you are losing them shows they were actually not those friends who would comply with the basic punchline for friendship– “friends in need are friends indeed” and I can rightly say they probably never deserved your friendship. I wonder if they are even giving a fraction of the amount of thought you are giving for the relation. Always remember strong relations are always two way.

This is what ebiz has taught me and given me today hundreds of two way relations. It has given me a family of friends who are friends genuinely, whom I can really count on. They would leave all their priorities just to help me out if I ever I were to be in crisis, and I would be present for them all, if they were in need

Now the question, after 38 months of my experience takes the answer that I did not actually lose friends instead I gained a large number of true friends on this journey of self discovery.